Assalammualaikum .. ok harini Mell saja nak share topic kahwin muda harini .. Mell ingat lagi masa sem satu dulu time study poli rata-rata kawan Mell dah sibuk merancang bertunang dan kahwin but when it comes to me it turns out differently .. Mell tak pernah terfikir to get into serious relationship jauh sekali fikir untuk kahwin .. Yela Mell time tu not ready yet to have my on responsibility .. Haha ingat perempuan ni tak ada tanggungjawab ?? Perempuan pun ada tanggungjawab .. 😲 Jangan terkejut ..
Tanggungjawab perempuan apa ??
- Siapa jaga makan minum laki awak nanti ? your mother or your mother in law ?
- Siapa nak uruskan rumah tangga dengan your kids nanti ? your mother or your mother in law ?
- Uruskan suami siapa ? your mother or your mother in law ? Ehh tak la 😒 orang gaji kan ada .. Huh satgi laki kau lari dengan maid jangan menangis tak berlagu ..
Tak pun perempuan zaman sekarang quite demanding "AKU BELAJAR TETINGGI , MINTAK HANTARAN TERTINGGI JADI HAMBA LELAKI ?" haha it's not like that .. Just think logicly why ALLAH created us to be pair ? To rely on each other , helping on each other .. And girls BEWARE , WATCH OUT 😉 sometime being too independent is not a good things you know .. Disini lah wujudnya lelaki malas sebab they think that wife can do everything and anything so I should sit back and relax .. End up gaduh and divorce ..
Taknak la macam tu .. Being in a relationship ni we should learn to give and take .. Plan and discuss .. Settle it in a nice way .. Tengok intro je pun dah panjang berjelar ..
Now its my opinion KAHWIN MUDA ? YES OR NO ? 😳 Ermm .. bagi Mell I choose to get married at young age .. Why ?? yela kan buat apa nak bercinta lelama bertahun .. Sometime ambil masa kurang daripada tifa tahun pun kite dah mengenali siapa pasangan kita .. Orang pun cakap bercinta lepas kahwin lagi seronok .. Tak yah nak sweet2 depan public buat orang menyampah + tambah dosa free ..
Lagi satu since Mell dengan family ni bukanla very close sangat .. So anything bila susah ke apa ke selalu bf Mell yang tolong Mell .. Sedih kan ada family tapi macam strangers .. Haha no la cuma theres something between me and my family yang buat Mell memang tak boleh masuk dengan dorang plus I am the one yang kalau boleh semua atas usaha sendiri , semua harta sendiri .. Rasa puas sangat kalau dapat memiliki semua tu sendiri .. and boyfriend Mell pun just like me that's why I can get along so well with him rather than family kot ..
