Friday 29 September 2017

WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE ?

Assalammualaikum ...


Mell nak tanya la sikit kan ? Kita yang menghukum ni pernah tak muhasabah diri kita terlebih dahulu ? Pernah tak kita tengok kesalahan orang lain dan reflect diri kita dulu ??


From my point of view people nowaday semua macam mepertaruhkan agama memasing , menghukum , bashing here there dengan mepertaruhkan agama . Yes sometime terang-terang kita nampak benda tu memang salah . Mell tak cuba untuk menegakkan benang yang basah . But agama islam tak mengajar kita menegur or mengubah seseorang dengan cara yang kasar.

Meh apa kata kita cermin diri kita yang kita rasa "PERFECT" sangat ni kalau tetibe orang datang menegur kita dengan cara yang kasar mesti kita akan melenting kan ? Bukan kata salah awak nak mepertahankan hak awak but even kita yang buat benda yag betul pun boleh melenting apatah lagi orang yang terang-terang bersalah yang merasakan diri dorang tu betul.

Dunia teknologi sekarang yang dikelilingi dengan socmed semuanya macam keyboard warrior .. Tak kisahla yang bertudung or not especially girl .. Yang membezakan mereka is seorang menutup aurat dan seorang lagi tak tutup aurat but the similarity both girls , both tak ada adab yang bertudung or free hair .

Cara berpakaian , lifestyle dan luaran seseorang tu boleh berubah from time to time . Tapi kalau perangai tu memang susah nak ubah .. Sebelum kita mengubah luaran kita ubah dulu hati , attitude and behaviour kita biarla kena dengan imej kita .

Sorry to say memang Mell bertudung tapi dari my point of view perempuan bertudung ni dari cara percakapan , cara pemakaian , adab , attitude mengalahkan perempuan yang free hair .

"Biar orang buat kita , Jangan kita buat orang." 

Monday 18 September 2017

PAK USU (RADZI AMAN) & MAK USU (DAYANG) SOLEMNIZATION PART 1





Assalammualaikum ...

DAY 1, 

First of all congrates to my Pak Usu Mohd Rdzi Bin Hj Aman for his wedding dengan sekali lafaz he officially become the husband to Dayang Sufiera Binti Shuib . Ok this is only part 1 majlis sebelah pihak perempuan yang bertemakan warna baby blue and white .Of course I'm happy seeing my uncle getting married to the girl he love .. The whole process Alhamdulillah went really smoothly dengan mas kahwin sebanyak RM300 dengan seutas gelang ..




"Who needs a bridesmaid when you surrounded by handsome horseman a.k.a cousin"
 Acah-acah je Mell ni .. Ok mana lengkap majlis akad nikah tanpa barang hantaran .. Wakil kami diiringi seven horseman yang membawa 7 dulang berbalas 9 dulang .. Banyak kan ?? Agak-agak nanti giliran Mell berapa dulang ye ?? 😒 tak mahula banyak sangat kot sebab Mell kedekut nak balas bebanyak .. Lewls ..




Maka berakhirla majlis akad niakh dengan jayanya ..

DAY 2,

Maka bermula lah majlis berarak dan persandingan la of coz ..





Haha mengiring pengantin berarak ke sendiri syok sendiri berarak + selfie kat depan ?? Apalah yang disembangkan tu kan sibuk sangat ?? Panas bak hang .. But pengalamn baru bagi Mell baru tahu macam ni rupanya nak kahwin nanti . Nak sanding nanti kan ??






Last but not least terima kasih diucapkan kepada wakil keluarga dari jauh yang sanggup turun padang memeriahkan majlis Pak Usu Mell yang tak seberapa .. Alhamdulillah majlis memang sangat meriah dan segala urusan berjalan dengan lancar ..



-SEKIAN- 😚😚😚

Monday 11 September 2017

WHAT IS COMPANY SECRETARY ?

Assalammualaikum ..


Ok ramai yang masih belum tahu apa itu sebenar-benarnya COMPANY SECRETARY . Mesti ramai yang akan bagi jawapan COMPANY SECRETARY ni S/U bos la . Aipp bukan . Even ramai kengkawan sis sendiri yang belajar course SCIENCE SECRETARYSHIP ni pun tak tahu apa actually skop pekerjaan dorang ni taw.

Ok sebelum kita story detail on this job scope . Let me introduce a myself a little bit . Nama diberi Sherry Mellisa Ng Binti Iskandar Ng kelulusan Diploma Sains Kesetiausahaan dari Politeknik Port Dickson . Poli je ? Yes poli sahaja and sikit pun Mell tak rasa malu sebab apa ? Sebab Mell belajar benda yang Mell tak pernah tahu macam korang la . UITM pun ada course ni yang dipanggil Pengurusan Teknologi Pejabat tapi expose more to how to be S/U bos . 

Ok sepanjang tiga tahun Mell belajar di Politeknik Port Dickson Mell belajar Company law perkara wajib dan belajar membuat resolution adela ala-ala lawyer sikit la . Ok FYI resolution tu bukannya minutes meeting semata-mata .. Resolution ni macam perjanjian hitam putih so in future anything happen resolution ni is valid taw untuk bawak naik court and resolution ini sangat P&C bukan macam kertas minutes meeting boleh letak merata taw .




Ingat lagi memula interview Boss tolak ketepi sijil2 Mell benda pertama dia tanya is apa yang you tahu bout Company Act ?

  • What is form 49 masa Company Act 1965 and now so called Section 58 according to Company Act 2016 ?
  • What is form 9 masa Company Act 1965 and now so called Section 17 according to Company Act 2016
  • What is form 24 masa Company Act 1965 and now so called Section 78 according to Company Act 2016
Huh nampak tak perbezaan COMPANY SECRETARY and NORMAL SECRETARY ? Selain itu COMPANY SECRETARY ni dia sangat memerlukan lesen professional which is called MAICSA syarat yang paling asas ala macam badan professional lain yang ada lesen dorang memasing la . Ok dibawah ni Mell attach sikit detail seminar yang Mell bakal attend untuk menunjukkan gambaran lebih jelas apa itu COMPANY SECRETARY job scope .



Huh so pekerjaan Mell ni bukan macam dalam drama yang korang tengok tu . Kerja Mell agak stress . Nak deal dengan client belum lagi client international . Pergi submit document to SSM lagi . Sampai my mum dah bebel bila you nak amik lesen MAICSA ni . Nak tunggu kahwin ,tunggu dah ada anak baru nk terhegeh2 buat semua tu . tetiba dalam dilemma kan ?

But people will change according to their surrounding and how they feel maybe ? Who might know . Mana tahu crisis in either one . SO tunggu coming post Mell we'll see which one I choose .








Saturday 9 September 2017

RELATIONSHIP HAS IT UP AND DOWN

Assalammualaikum ..

Wow topic harin ni relationship has it s up and down . What does it mean ? Have you ever heard pepatah sedangkan lidah sendiri pun boleh tergigit . Ok for one who know me will always say untung jadi kau Mell , untung ada pakwe macam kau Mell and senang cerita semuanya indah-indah belaka macam fairytale story Rapunzel.

Ok Mell bukanlah tak pernah ada masalah in relationship . Have knew and date for almost three years there is up and down . Almost everything boleh jadikan topic bergaduh . The main point is actually both of us ego .




Argument is always started becoz of semua nak menang , semua tak boleh nak terima pendapat pasangan memasing , semua nak jadi dominant , tak nak berubah but expecting partner to change dari situ timbul perasaan tak puas hati and end with ego . 

Being selfish and ego wont take you anywhere but why always this kind of thing happen ? Sometime we need to cool down , sit down and think about it why this happening ? We cant 100% blame our partner when argument occur . Its being unfair to our partner as well to ourselves ..

Yes Mell ni memang emo and sensitive but what about him ? ego and selfish . I like everything to be discuss together but it turn out differently for him . He think that I tried to control him . If we can't manage our lifestyle and finance well end of the day the one suffer is ourselve.

I tried my best to help him to build his own empire , be a success guy but if he did not put any effort he will just be a normal guy . I dont mind if he  is a normal guy but did himself can accept it ? Without he realizing actually he's complain a lot on life . 


Kenapa duit selalu tak cukup . Hubby nak itu nak ini tapi tak ada duit and bla bla bla .

But if he let me help him he did not realize or even appreciate it that actually he can easily get what he want and he still can keep his saving on his own.

And kita as ladies of coz perasaan jealous , sensitive semua tu will have . If I tak sayang tak ada I sesibuk nak risau mana dia nak pergi or apa dia nak buat or nak mampus pun tak apa .. If not because I care and love for him I wont waste my time on him .. But he never get it . For him I'm such a fussy and busy body .

But let the time decide . Perempuan ni if terlalu sayang juga tak boleh sebab nanti sampai satu tahap dia jadi penat and move on .

Saturday 2 September 2017

JETI SUNGAI LURUS JOHORE

Assalammualaikum ..

Siapa kaki jalan macam Mell ?? Ok hari ni nak cerita about some place yang memang kalau tengok orang share dekat fb tu rasa nak pergi la but its a bit dissapointed la ..

I'm here bukan nak berlagak DIVA but it depends on individual even where you come from hygiene is a must kan ? Ok la back to our story masa balik kampung that day I have nothing to do so I request to my cousin to drive me to Sungai Lurus coz I have seen the add in facebook yang that place quite nice but unfortunately Indah khabar dari rupa.




Ok here as you can see in picture memang lawa , Its a nice place to visit when you want to find a place to release your stress after a long busy working day during weekday . Ok this one I admit it really help dengan bunyi ombak nya and strong wind I really enjoyed it . But kayu yang like pagar dekat tepi tu not helping . If you try to land on it and unlucky enough anytime you boleh jatuh dalam tu so they should improve it or just remove it easier .







And of course when It comes to jalan petang tepi pantai having some ice cream will complete your afternoon but spoil sikitla makan ice cream tepi pantai with a strong wind memang cari pasal 😚 mendapat la ice cream tu kotorkan seluruh baju tudung dan segalanya hahaha ..








Memang overall I still satisfied with the pantai and all that . Cuma What makes me unhappy is the toilet and the food they serves . Can you imagine toilet penuh dengan lalat , berbau , and pintu tak boleh tutup ?? If takat toilet kecil and tak macam five star I still can accept .. You are a girl for me girl ni more care about hygiene .. On my way nak masuk toilet I can see this auntie slumber je keluar toilet campak pampers anak dia semak belakang toilet tu WHAT THE HELL .. Tong sampah ada kot .. and even the toilet cannot flush siram la sikit dengan air don't just leave it there .. Annoyed rasa .. Orang lain buat tahu geli .. Haiz ..

And the food .. Memang pergh menyelerakan memang sedap but when it comes to hygiene another fail .. I know you punye customer ramai pinggan tak cukup .. Nak cepat but tolongla bersih juga .. Orang yang datang macam2 entah2 sisa apa lagi yang they all throw on the plate selain makanan .. Cuci sabun bilas won't take your time .. Bukan suruh you gosok pinggan tu sampai kilat macam hotel ..So hope they can't improve next time I come .. Punggor pun maybe lagi bersih ..