WHY PEOPLE NOWADAYS CHOOSE TO IGNORE OTHERS ?

😳😳😳😳Assalammualaikum ..

   Makin lama makin rancak Mell berblogging .. Dulu rarely sangat nak blogging kan ? Maybe because I have much story to share .. Ok today topic is about WHY PEOPLE NOWADAYS CHOOSE TO 不在乎 (IGNORE) OTHERS ? .. I think at least I'm not the excellent and intelligent in IQ or more specifically in education and I'm not the worse either but just an intermediate level student . Alhamdulillah I have make a decision to study people around me than collecting DOSA by judging and bashing them like what always happen in socmed these day. By observing people around me I can describe a few things that I can see . So this is a few of what I can share & tell .

 

  Back to my story WHY PEOPLE NOWADAYS CHOOSE TO 不在乎 (IGNORE) OTHERS ?

 

   1) Behaviour , Tingkah laku , 态度   

•  Yes Mell going to admit this that what make me get annoyed so much especially yang rasa diri dia dah pandai sangat dah bagus sangat . But when I'm facing this kind of situation I akan fikir balik that I shouldn't think others is stupid because lain orang lain cara . Lain bidang lain pandangan mereka . I will always listen to others and if I think something is not right I will ask before I jump into conclusion and "FEEL" like I'm the only one study in higher level of education like I'm too "PERFECT" .

   2) Way of Thinking , Cara Berfikir , 思维方式

• Ha berfikir pun ada caranya tahu . Educated or good family background tak melambangkan the way we think . Never judge a person by the outside or the book by its cover 从来没有通过封面来判断一本书 . Ha macam-macam bahasa dah keluar .. Mohon hadam . Kekadang orang educated ni their thingking or point of view is like a bullshit (I did not mean all of them just certain and what I've been observe) . They would not think before take action . WHY ? Because their thinking is What's the point talking so much with low education people .

   3) Discriminate , Diskriminasi/Perbandingan , 辨析

• Yes this always happen in family . Bandingkan anak-anak mereka among the others sibling . Bandingkan anak mereka dengan anak kawan-kawan . Anak orang lain gaji besar but they forget anak sendiri gaji tak besar but still spend on family , still provide some pocket money to their parents and its call responsibility . When the parents in trouble they wont ask from their success kids . WHY ? coz their success kids just think about themselves end up the kids yang dihina , dicaci , disbanding-bandingkan will come to you .

   4) Pious ? , Bajet Alim , (sorry Chinese IDK)

• Ok this is last and always happen . Banyak Ustaz & Ustazah instant . Mell tak kisah kalau nak menegur or mendidik but sampai tuduh masuk neraka jahanam , Macam setan , and others than rude word I think tu tak menunjukkan ciri-ciri orang alim . Even nabi dulu pun tak pernah menegur dengan cara yang kasar . Even ada yang macam riak by saying "Dah tegur taknak dengar sudah , Aku dah lepas tanggungjawab at least tak kena heret to HELL with you" . 

 

P/S : Remember that setiap orang ada kelebihan dan kelemahan sendiri . No one is perfect . Even a robot also can did a minor mistake . Never discriminate or judging others on what they do but try to understand why the do that and help them is possible . Remember as well what goes around will come around and sorry if my word is harsh .

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Assalammualaikum ...

   Dah 3 tahun dah Mell berbisnes ni dan Alhamdulillah rezeki yang datang itu banyak sedikit dapatla dibuat sebagai duit tambahan or duit poket kan ..

   Actually what I need to story is not much . I just want to show my appreciation to my follower by organize a giveaway which is I'm going to giveaway an islamic Planner diary book which consist of 2018 calendar , quote and others much interesting content .

   How to join ? Ok just search any one of my ig listed above and before you join make sure you follow my blog as well and follow all the three ig shop above and spreads this good news to every single of your friend to stand a chance to be our winner . Lagi ramai yang join InshaAllah Mell akan tambah hadiah lagi .



 

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Assalammualaikum ,

   Before I start , I would like to ask have you ever heard about SHOPEE ? Have you guys shop at SHOPEE before ? or have you sell anything at SHOPEE ?

   For those never heard about SHOPEE let me tell you a bit about SHOPEE website . I believe all of you must have been shopping online through LAZADA , 11STREET , ZALORA , FASHION VALET , HERMO or any others shopping website .

   Ok for Mell I have been shop at SHOPEE twice . First time I bought phone accessories and my second time I bought household . Alhamdulillah everything I bought is in good condition and never dissapoint plus you can chat directly with the seller . This is what I like when I shop through SHOPEE . 

   Beside that if your item unavailable the seller will call you or whatsapp you directly to inform you either you want to change to others product or request for refund . The price at SHOPEE quite cheap and affordable as well . Its worth it if you buy more .

   I'm also a seller as well so for me its convenience to sell through SHOPEE . Once I post my product they need to go through for product checking before allowed to post to public so I can guarantee that item that sell in SHOPEE is 100% authentic.

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STRESS OUT AT WORK ? THAT'S NOT OKAY .

Assalammualaikum ,

   Allah dugaan betul harini . Felt like reality life iscruel , working life is not fun . So for those yang wish want to grow up fast , want to live independent work and earn your own money . I bet you better forget it unless you have higher EQ . You really need to prepare your mental for all of this . Better enjoy your kids life , teenage life , college life before you prepare yourself untuk tempuh alam perkejaan .

   I know not only me the one who face this kond of situation and maybe ada yang lagi worse from what I'm going through . But its my first time as well when my own Bos renyukkan paperwork I and throw it like that and telling me its a BULLSHIT . Frankly speaking rasa nak menangis .

   I'm not a crybaby or jenis yang tak boleh ditegur but maybe I belum boleh adapt . Pengalaman kerja pun baru dua tahun and 还有很多东西要学习 (there's still a lot to learn) . 

   As you can see almost everyday my schedule is really pack . My Bos always say I'm a 忘记 (forgetful) person so I really need this kind of things to remind me . If not mesti terlepas pandang punya . And I'm only given 三天 (3 days)to complete every resolution before release to client to arrange signature . If exceeded 三天 (3 days) I think I'm going to die . My bos will nag me . Adui .

So just nak advice enjoy the journey of your life , enjoy the moment of growing up . Dont rush to be adult . Believe me when you become an adult even how much you had your work you still struggle to be the best coz life is cruel . NO MONEY , NO LIFE .

P/S : SOrry for my rojak language . There's a bit of chinese word is because my bos is chinese and I grow up in chinese family .. Haha taknak cakap mix sebab takut kena kecam .. Just kidding la .. At the same time my readers and follower can enhance and learn more language . Kan bagus we are one MALAYSIA kan ? Actually I'm not good juga in Mandarin still learning juga so we learn together hokay 🙆

MY BRACES STORY : SI GIGI BESI

Assalammualaikum ...

   Hye there haha next month 2nd November 2017 I'm going to remove my braces already baru nak story mory kan ??

Ramai yang tanya sakit tak ? Berapa batang gigi nak cabut ? Here's my Braces story .. I'm not like others socket fall , migrain , ngilu or rasa sakit and the best part I don't need to remove a lot of teeth .. I just remove only two teeth ..

   Ehh .. 😲😲 Doctor you betul ke tak ni ?? Haha bawak bersabar cuba listen to my story sampai habis dulu baru judge .. Mell percaya ramai yang pakai braces sebab nak ikut trend je .. Tak study bebetul dulu ..

Mehh Mell share sikit serba sedikit type of braces

1) Metal braces / Traditional braces

• Traditional braces have progressed since the early days and are now lighter in weight and structure than they used to be. They are made from a high-grade stainless steel and have metal brackets that are attached to each tooth using a type of cement. The brackets are linked to each other with a thin archwire, which puts pressure on the teeth to cause them to move slowly into the correct position.
  The archwires are connected to the brackets using tiny elastics known as ligatures or o-rings, which your orthodontist will change each time he tightens the braces. Some types of braces have brackets that don't need o-rings, and these are called self-ligating braces.

 2) Ceramic Braces

• These work in the same way as traditional braces, but the brackets are made from a clear, transparent ceramic material. The braces are less visible to others, which makes them a popular choice for adults who need orthodontic treatment. Patients wearing these types of braces occasionally find that the elastics become discolored, which can cause marks on the teeth, as described by the orthodontics practice of Drs. William and Lewis Chapman. Your orthodontist might recommend the use of a product such as Colgate® Phos-Flur® Anti-Cavity Fluoride Rinse, which will help to provide fluoride to your teeth to protect them against cavities.

 3) Damon Braces

• This type of braces is currently enjoying a wave of popularity with orthodontists because it provides gentler treatment and requires fewer dental visits. Damon braces are self-ligating and use a slide mechanism instead of elastics to connect the archwires.
  These braces produce faster results because the teeth can move on their own without needing to be adjusted. This causes less friction and pressure on the teeth, so movement is less painful. The braces are also easier to keep clean. Having to make fewer trips to your dental professional means that the process costs less time and money, too.

Sumber dari : http://www.colgate.com/en/us/oc/oral-health/cosmetic-dentistry/adult-orthodontics/article/what-are-the-different-types-of-braces-and-which-is-right-for-me-0414

   So back to the story I'm using damon braces system so I safe a lot of time and money .. I started wear it on 1 January 2016 and less than two year I can see the change and I dont feel any side effect like what others feel ..

  And this is one of the reason I don't need to remove a lot of teeth is because the force by damon system has help me to pull and adjust my teeth . Its moveable and not like traditional I need to remove teeth and pull the wire again and again ... And damon system is using clip socket that why I don't have any colorful color on my teeth unlike traditional .. Plus for case like mine memang orang cakap jongang la .. Large upper jaw and small lower jaw if I use traditional system I might need surgery to cut my jaw as well to put screw on my gum and I'm really afraid of pain ..

So as conclusion tak ada istilah dentist palsu or menipu .. It depend on us what kind of sytem are we prefer or you can get dentist advice before proceed .. Siapa tak nak cantik but instead of nak ikut trend better get ur dentist advice which suit u well dari menyesal kemudian hari kan ..

LONELY DRIVER ON FRIDAY MORNING

Assalammualaikum ...

Fuhh .. gigih Mell edit video nak bagi ngam ngam 100MB punya pasal..

   Okla actually not much to story .. Just posting bout how's my daily life is and since today I become a lonely driver so just record some video to talk nonsence .. Usually I will be company by my mother .. Haha a growing up girl who has never grow up still need a company .. 

   Luckily even need to drive alone but I arrive early to my office and get a breakfast treat from Bos .. Okla kan better than nothing .. Saving already for breakfast .. 😏

GIRLS DAY OUT

 Assalammualaikum ..

  Hey , Maaf lah sepanjang Mell berblogging ni tak menarik mana . Maklumla Mell bukan budak yang pandai berkata-kata of berfalsafah .. Mell budak law pandai bercakap berdasarkan fakta je .. Tapi hope I can inspire you guys ..

   Ok today 9 October we celebrating one of my colleague birthday and also count as girls day out as well since we working in audit firm and it kinda stress us a lot ..

    Nak kata we are really close to each other not really la just more to colleague and co-worker relationship .. But we have one similarity which is all is fresh graduate so tak de la worry sangat about politic or competition .. Kene marah semua kena , we share everythign together as one team which is hard to find in other company .. Kalau ada pon its really rare ..

   Even relationship biasa-biasa sahaja , come from different background and race but we still can hang out together, sharing stories , what we feel no hard feeling and we can go travel together as well .. Senang cerita all is open minded and live and urban live ..

   Actually what make us become racist is politic .. As long as we live happily sudah la .. Memasing dah besarkan ?? Pandai bezakan yang baik dan buruk and respect agama masing-masing ..

   Actually last night we hang dekat shell out next to surau and our chinese friends tak ada any issue regarding this matter and when we perform our maghrib prayer they waited for us outside on the table .. Make friend with different races will make us learn a lot others culture , what is their DO'S & DON'T and respect their religion ..

   From 5 people become 3 people only .. Here we are what I'm craving for .. Thanx girls for the MANGOSIX meal treat .. Dah kenyang makan shell out next of course should be desert ..

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